Writer’s Block and Shit

I have a confession to make.  I have had writer’s block for the last three weeks.  If you follow my blog or occasionally peruse the pages, you know that in addition to my passion for cooking, food, and motherhood, I like to have at, and write.  I have currently, about 35 drafts that I am…

Assertiveness. The New Sexy

I have a confession to make.  I have not always been the self-assured, sinfully witty, assertive, badass, I am today! I was not even in the same realm! For many years I struggled to fit in, to not feel invisible, and to rise above the madness and self-doubt that plagued my manic mind with self-defeating,…

The Big O….What’s New in Getting You There

I have a confession to make….I have always been a free spirit, open minded, able and willing to, get in touch with my feminine side, and embrace it in all of it’s sexy, heavenly, glory.   I take responsibility and relish in making things happen, including my orgasms.  Now don’t get me wrong, I have a willing and…

Unapologetic-ally YOU. The Psychology of Apology

I have a confession to make. I was…a serial apologizer. Like many women, I have the disease to please, let me rephrase that.  I had, the disease to please.  I am now cured of this.  Years of therapy and psychoanalysis will do that.  So will, getting tired of assuming blame for everything gone wrong, in an effort to…

Conditions Be Damned….Unconditional Love

I have a confession to make.   I finally understand what love is….. It is the indescribable bliss you feel when you see him from across a crowded room, the way your heart skips a beat, still.. when he smiles, the familiar way he feels against your skin.  It is the pain you feel deep inside. …

My Blogging Anniversary….One Year

I have a confession to make! I can hardly believe that one year has come and gone.  YES, my friends it has been a year since I launched my blog!  What a long, strange trip it’s been!  While my first blog post was officially launched on January 11, 2017, I didn’t go live on Facebook,…

You Do You. I’m Good.

 have a confession to make.  I have never been the chick that takes unsolicited advice, (unless it’s where to score killer heels, how I can achieve a non-surgical butt lift, or how to nab a lip plumper, that will give me Angelina Jolie-esque, lips) nor can I handle stark criticism, very well.  It’s not that…

Listen Up….How to Listen to What’s Not Being Said

I have a confession to make.  I pride myself on being an observer of life, the consummate eavesdropper, in the most unobtrusive way.  Not for what is being said, in as much as what is not being said.  Here is what I found out. Many people aside from being mostly full of shit, are really…

Fumbling Towards Sexy

I have a confession to make, sexy is not something that comes easy to me, and I have to work really hard at making it look like it is in my DNA.  Sure I kinda have the makeup thing down, as long as I don’t attempt the smokey eye, no matter how many YouTube tutorials…

Beyond Oz…It’s All Just Smoke and Mirrors

“We are not here to be medicore at life, we are here to achieve greatness, excel, and make the world a better place for ourselves, our children, and humanity, and if you are not living a life that is intentional, full of purpose, and authentic, you are not living!”

Fucked Up, Flawed & Full of Grace

“But lack of parental supervision upped the odds in that direction exponentially, for sure.   While it was good in showing a whole generation of girls that they don’t have to settle down and marry for the sake of financial security and motherhood, enabling them to find their place in the workforce against their male counterparts, I do believe there was a negative impact on child rearing that differed from a generation I grew up in.”

Chasing Waterfalls

“The thing is, denying that call to seeking out what is yearning in your soul, leads to resentment, anger, anxiety, depression, and a clear disconnect.  You are in essence, denying who you are and who you are destined to be, when you make concessions that feel less than empowering, and more like settling.  “