Assertiveness. The New Sexy

I have a confession to make.  I have not always been the self-assured, sinfully witty, assertive, badass, I am today! I was not even in the same realm! For many years I struggled to fit in, to not feel invisible, and to rise above the madness and self-doubt that plagued my manic mind with self-defeating,…

Stella Got Her Groove Back, and So Can You

In the wildly famous, very funny 1998 movie, Stella, played by the sexy, Angela Bassett, is a powerful business woman, who is too busy with raising her son and her career to have a life, and after some persuading, is finally talked into living a little and getting away on a long overdue”vaca”, with her…

Breaking Good

Fast approaching 50 years old finds me reflective, taking stock in my life, and is giving me a glimpse of what my legacy is looking like.  While I am not anticipating checking out anytime soon, as I look back on the first 50 years, I see the times where I fucked up in my life, and the…